Okay once you've lost respect for a man, it's pretty much a wrap.. At that point all the innocence of the relationship is gone. The innocence being all the BELIEF, the HOPE the DREAMS, the PLANS, and the GOALS you had when first going in to the relationship.
I’d say Trust is the most important and the most abused in most relationships because it IS genuinely innocent ...it believes EVERYTHING...and it doesn't question anything. Look, even when intuition kicks in, TRUST has been known to make a few of us deny that also! (people don't know how deep trust is and they take it for granted. smh) This is why once the trust is gone it can very seldom be rebuilt to what it was before it was broken. Whatever they did to break that trust, will honestly NEVER be forgotten....well, at least for "me" anyway. I don't forget shyt. lol
Now that's not to say I won't forgive, but it's hard for me to forget.......and I admit, Im not beyond bringing up "old" shyt during an argument or “heated discussion” every now and then either….but aye don’t judge me, Im still a work in progress myself, Im not perfect. lol
So my loves, always be forgiving when you can, but NEVER, never, ever, ever forget. And if you can't trust a person LEAVE THEM ALONE. Understand that if it walks like a duck and quacks like a duck, it ain't Aflack, it's a damn DUCK! So don't be afraid to trust your gut, it's usually the first thing to tell you "something' ain't right"....now if you don't even trust yourself, then you got issues I can't help you fix, YOU have to work that out, because TRUST is like LOVE, you can't feel it for anybody else if you don't feel it for yourself.
Keep your head up my loves and stay positive!!
Me...
