Okay so it's officially "out with the old and in with the new". The old is hard, rugged and dead to any sense of commitment, affection and loyalty. The new? Well, that's a whole bother beast. The new comes with emotional scars, walls and an inability to love wholly and completely. So how do we do this? First you gotta figure out if he's even worth all the time and effort it takes to be chipping at and breaking down walls.... then if at all possible you have to come to terms that just because you grab the chisel and hammer and attempt to sculpt what you deem the perfect lover, it doesn't mean he/she will be perfect at all. In fact let's be honest, it's more than likely that they won't be perfect at all.
Here's what I've learned...that no matter how "to good to be true" a person may seem in the beginning, they usually end up being totally nothing like what you first perceived them to be at all. This could be good AND it could be bad, whatever the case you must ALWAYS remember to be careful what you ask for. With everything it is you THINK you want, there also come a lot of things you don't want. Take time to find out what those things are, and if you can tolerate them in a relationship...or not.
